- Matilda, 19 // swoosh to you my fellow nerds. - Superwholock, Merlin, Harry Potter, The Walking Dead, GOT, Hamilton, OTGW, Magisterium, OITNB, Sense8, Torchwood, Sarah Jane's Adventures, Izombie, AOT, Adventure Time, The Hobbit, LOTR, The Magicians, Parks and Rec, The 100, TMI, TID and TDA, Artemis Fowl, Glee, OUAT, The Vampire Diaries, The Originals, AHS, Teen Wolf, TMR, Disney, Gravity Falls, ATLA, LOK, and random stuff :D // Married to Artemis since 2013/01/21
“ive connected the dots” “you didnt connect shit” “ive connected them” is by far the best thing to have come out of buzzfeed unsolved it is so incredibly funny. the poses. the confidence. i can feel the tone. its incredible.
Is this supposed to be like when someone gets evicted on big brother?
lol no its based on a gif
Yes, but the viral gif you are thinking of is of the beautiful legend Da'Vonne Rogers from Big Brother after she was untimely evicted from the BB house and entering the studio
If you and your partner practice frequent, non-sexual consent, your relationship will be healthier and easier.
“Are you comfortable with me ranting about my day for a few minutes?”
“Oh, this is your poetry? Would it be okay if I read it?”
“Do you mind if I use your phone for a few minutes?”
“Wow, your meal looks awesome. Could I try some?”
It will save a lot of grief, especially in a developing relationship. Eventually, with consistent “yes’s” and “no’s” you can figure out more permanent boundaries and guidelines.
“I need to ask before ranting about my day or taking their food, but my partner is okay with me using their phone whenever. However, my partner does not like me reading their poetry unless they offer first.”
And this goes for friendships too! Even just stuff like “do you mind if I leave this door open?”
…I never fully realized it before but this is a big part of why my relationship with my husband is so conflict-free. Both because him doing this all the time made it easy to trust him, back when we were a new item, and because it helped ME break out of the toxic idea that you should never ask about a partner’s preferences because if you Really Loved Them you should be able to intuit what they want, all the time, about anything.
Peter peeking, September 2019
This drawing took me 11 hours and 10 minutes to make; spent mainly inside my car with very inappropriate lighting and pencils slipping everywhere, trying to find the time during very busy days. I chose the reference picture back in June (when Peter’s floof was still alive and thriving) and knew the overlapping shadows would be a challenge. In the end, I think the hands took me the longest.
